“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.” – Albert Einstein
A good friend told me that the post about the visitor I was supposed to have was too dramatic. Maybe she’s right, but it was my reality at the time. Disappointment is like the monster under your bed. You talk yourself into believing it’s not there and that it doesn’t matter and that you will be fine. So you fall asleep, but that little monster somehow manages to creep up on you in your dreams. You try to fight off that monster: maybe you scream, maybe you swing a fist, maybe you throw a pillow. Your heart is in it so maybe the reaction isn’t always the smartest or most well thought out. That's life. You live, you learn, and you move on. People come and people go, but each person can be a true learning experience and provide something to move forward with.
Speaking of moving forward….transportation here in Ghana is a trip, actually, no, it’s a journey. Every. Single. Time. Traffic in the cities is atrocious. Construction galore is part of the problem. But it’s also the fact that the only available forms of public transportation are taxis or trotros. A lot of people do not own their own cars, so they rely solely on these public transportation options. Oh how amazing a train system would be! It would lighten the load on the roads and help people breathe better. These old jalopies clunkin’ around town are shooting out all kinds of fumes, which I’m sure is part of the reason why respiratory infections are the second most frequently diagnosed illness in Ghana. Traffic dictates the day. It can take several hours to travel 40-50 miles. For example, today, it took my bus five hours to travel approximately 90 miles. Insane!
Patience: the greatest lesson I am learning from Ghana’s transportation system. It’s encouraging to see highways being constructed and roads being paved. Progress is being made, but it’s slow. So, us visitors just have to relax and enjoy the ride.